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Text 110, 103 rader
Skriven 2005-05-10 23:52:12 av Ardith Hinton (1:153/716.0)
    Kommentar till text 109 av James Bradley (1:134/77.0)
Ärende: Zing!
=============
Hi, James!  Recently you wrote in a message to Ardith Hinton:

JB>  I trust you've noticed my spontaneous title liberties?


          Yup.  I'm taking similar liberties with the sequence here....  ;-)



JB>  I just told my Dr. that "I can deal with the pain. I'm
JB>  used to it." He still felt it was necessary to give me
JB>  more anti-convulsants to address the pain signals. <?>


          Possibly to avoid further damage to your hip & to other joints?  In
my experience, pain in a hip (or knee or ankle) often results in an altered
gait... i.e. a conscious or subconscious attempt to reduce pressure on the
painful joint which could have detrimental effects elsewhere. 
Anti-convulsant/muscle relaxant drugs may help where muscle tension is
contributing to the pain.  If you can get the same effect without drugs, I
think that's wonderful... but you need a doctor who is open to the idea of
using alternative strategies & who will take the time to explain why he or she
prefers to treat the problem in a certain way.  Not all doctors volunteer such
information because not everybody wants to know....  :-))



AH>  Give yourself a gold star for objective reporting....  ;-)

JB>  Who... ME? <LOL>


          Yes, you!  You acknowledged that you had received the information
from a third party & reserved judgement on your classmate's recent
behaviour....  :-)



JB>  The source was rather trustworthy, but it's not above
JB>  the most level headed person to instill their own bias.


          Exactly.  I can't help wondering whether your classmate was
expressing various "negative" feelings openly for the first time, and whether
he could have survived if he'd been able to work through them earlier.  I see
his behaviour as a stage in recovery from all sorts of things, not just from
cancer... a stage in which a person may have realized there's a lot of pent-up
anger to be dealt with but doesn't quite know yet what to do with it.  An
observer who had little or no background in the subject might consider such
behaviour unhealthy... as the term "guilt trip" seems to imply.  I don't know
for sure what was going on.  I wasn't there either.  And I might react
differently if a friend was blaming me....  ;-)



JB>  In that moment, in a round about way, Ronnie told me exactly
JB>  how some opinions can stink, or can smell like honey.


          Uh-huh.  He was willing to admit to not understanding... and as far
as I'm concerned that's to his credit, although others may regard it as a
weakness. If a person tells me they don't understand something I generally take
that as an indication they're open to learning more & I'm glad to help.  If
they respond to the same thing by telling me I'm a neurotic, overprotective
mother (or whatever) I take that as an indication they probably understand
less, but aren't ready for further input at present.  I also feel they're
trying to change me into somebody else... and I resist such attempts.  I'm more
amenable to change when others are prepared to meet me halfway.  I imagine
that's a fairly common reaction....  :-)



JB>  Sometimes, a flower grows through pavement. <-;


          Yup....  :-)



AH>  I'm not suggesting I can work miracles all by myself

JB>  On the other side of the coin, maybe you sell yourself
JB>  short? <EG>


          Could be!  And there's another thing I like about you.  Not only do
we both see the other side of the coin, but you also beat me to it sometimes. 
:-))



JB>  But come the triple-oomph, it's not in our hands any more.


          Uh-huh.  "I've done what I can... now it's your turn!"  I think we
may need to indicate our readiness to accept input in these situations as well.
 :-)




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